An Admonishment of Mediocrity

by anonymous

In an article published late last year, the Rev. Stan Copeland addressed the One Church Plan, one of the three plans being voted on by the United Methodist Church in February to address the issue of homosexuality in the church. Copeland is in support of the One Church Plan, but cites one major concern, that “any time we have a (congregational) vote it’s potentially divisive.” According to the article, “Copeland would rather the pastor and other local church leaders make that call.”

This sentiment rings horrendously detrimental for several reasons. Firstly, the deeply flawed One Church Plan is a beacon of hope, albeit an apologetic and imperfect beacon, that individual churched have the right and ability to choose the radically inclusivity and non-judgment argued for by Christ. To remove the power of individual congregations and centralize it into the pastor’s and local leadership holds a host of moral and logistical issues. It makes those LGBTQIA+ and allied members in more itinerate conferences subject to the fear that while their current Pastor may be welcoming, the person who comes next may not.

In addition to this pandering allyship, the Council of Bishops released a letter, declaring that they see “the ways in which the convening of the Special Session of General Conference creates a time and space of harm for you and members of your family. To be the focus of attention, discussion and debate is hurtful.” This letter is riddled with doublespeak, deigning to acknowledge the existence of queer people without taking any direct ownership of the fact that the Bishops are complicit in our oppression. It is the clerical equivalent of “I’m sorry you feel that way,” mincing words and hiding behind phrases like “honor our convictions” to allow themselves a congratulatory victory, that they have done so much in speaking to us in this groundbreaking way, and yet said absolutely nothing substantive in support at all.

To anyone drawing comfort in the idea of the one church plan, or preaching a rhetoric of acceptance and “love to those who see things differently,” especially my family of queer folks, I implore you to be vigilant. To call out injustice wherever we see it. To ask any queer member of the United Methodist Church to embody the false narrative of accepting abuse at the hands of our house of worship in an act of Christian passivity, is to dishonor the courage of Christ to stand among the least wanted. The love, light, and strength of the queer members of this congregation is unwaveringly strong, and no amount of platitude can undo the harm of our leaders’ complacency and deliberate abuse. It is not enough to say that we live as Christ wants us to, we must take the courageous, political, radical, loving step of actually doing it.  If not, then what ever is the point?

It is no secret that our country, our church, and our world are living in frightening and divided times. On so many of these issues of injustice and oppression there are examples of United Methodists actively, openly. And without fail moving to act in the face of hatred and directly oppose aggression. We are sheltering immigrants, we are calling out racism and xenophobia, we are empowering those in need. But until we clean our own house, and affirm LGBTQIA+ people without any hesitation, then we are throwing countless stones while we worship in a cathedral of glass.

MIND Supports The Simple Plan

Hello MINDful people! We wanted to call your attention to The Simple Plan, one of the three plans being considered by the Commission on a Way Forward, and the only plan to simply remove the discriminatory language from our Book of Discipline. (It still allows for individual clergy and churches to avoid doing queer weddings, but does not prohibit ordination of LGBTQ people).

This plan was primarily composed by queer people of color seeking to inspire our denominational leaders in the discernment of a way forward in regards to LGBTQIA+ lives. MIND is proud to join the many United Methodists supporting this plan, and over the next few weeks, we would like to share some of their stories with you. To date, more than 7,000 people have co-signed this plan.

Fulfilling the NYAC Commitment to Queer Voices at GC 2019

In 2017 New York Annual Conference overwhelmingly endorsed the concept that there must be Queer voices at the 2019 Special General Conference. Very few annual conferences will have delegations embodying the concept, making the elections in our annual conference especially significant. With this in mind, we share with you a declaration and an offering by a diverse group of Queer laity and clergy and allies who feel called to this ministry of witness and have expressed their willingness, if elected, to serve as delegates or alternates to General Conference. This group is not a “slate.” These are individuals with a common commitment consistent with the goals set out by the 2017 New York Annual Conference.

 A way forward that centers the marginalized

 

For those attending NYAC 2018, ID Numbers for Candidates Are Listed Below: 

CLERGY CANDIDATES

LGBTQI

Rev. Kristina Hansen                       ID # 221

Rev. Alex da Silva Souto                 ID # 121

Rev. Martha E. Vink                         ID # 593

Rev. Dr. Sara Thompson Tweedy    ID # 575

 

Allies

Rev. Vicki Flippin                     ID # 172

Rev. Sheila M. Beckford          ID # 039

Rev. Wongee Joh                    ID # 267

Rev. Paul Fleck                       ID # 170

 

LAY CANDIDATES

LGBTQI

Jorge Lockward                   ID # 9

Dr. Dorothee Benz               ID # 1

Karen G. Prudente               ID # 10

QuiShaun D. Hill                  ID # 7

Ann Craig                            ID # 3

Allies

Tiffany French-Goffe           ID # 6

Fred Brewington                 ID # 2

Daisy Tavarez                    ID # 12

Get more info and full bios at https://www.withnotabout.org/

Click here to learn why we’re running… and asking for your support.

We are being faithful to the mandate from the 2017 annual conference, which voted to urge the conference to elect a majority-LGBTQI slate for the special GC, whose express and sole purpose is to address the impasse in the church over how we treat LGBTQI people.

This group represents many decades of faithful service and leadership in the UMC and our conference. It specifically includes deep GC expertise (seven people with direct delegation experience and multiple others who have attended many GCs) and additional significant legal/legislative/Judicial Council/Discipline expertise.

It reflects the diversity of the conference and our understanding of interconnectedness of oppressive systems. It is specifically and intentionally majority people of color, and committed to the unfinished work of racial justice in the UMC.

Above all, it is a chance for NYAC to live into its legacy of opposition to the UMC’s systemic exclusion of LGBTQI people. It is a chance to give queer people agency and voice in a way that they quite literally have never had in our denomination.

We want this delegation and this GC to be different, and that includes inviting in everyone who wants to help to participate in our process and to join us if they can in St. Louis. There is room at our table for all and for everyone’s gifts, and we need everyone’s gifts.

New York Annual Conference 2018

MIND is at AC 2018!

Whether or not you will be attending Annual Conference, here are a few things you can do:

  • Follow what’s happening on social media. MIND will be posting regular updates on our Facebook and Twitter pages, so please follow and repost anything you think deserves a wider audience. The general AC hashtag is #nyacumc and the one we’re using to promote the majority-queer, majority-POC group running is #WithNotAbout. Please follow, and please use the hashtags to help your posts get noticed!
  • #WithNotAbout. A major piece of business for this Annual Conference is the election of representatives to the special General Conference next year. Since this GC is focused on whether the UMC should continue to promote discrimination against LGBTQ people, we support the idea that LGBTQ people ought to be included in this conversation. You can read much more about this at https://www.withnotabout.org/.
  • Tell a friend. Every person in this movement got involved because of a conversation. Why not introduce a justice-oriented United Methodist to this work yourself? Have the difficult conversations at coffee hour! Share our Facebook and Twitter posts with comments telling people why ending church-sponsored discrimination is important to you.
  • Keep us in prayer. Annual Conference is all too often a bruising experience for LGBTQ people. We ask that you keep your queer siblings in prayer, and that you join us in a prayer for this ongoing harm to end.

If you are going to be attending Annual Conference, please consider these additional actions:

  • Show your support! Friday is t-shirt day. As conference veterans know, we ask everyone who supports the full inclusion of LGBT people in the church to wear the distinctive purple shirts on Friday as a witness to the entire conference. For LGBT people attending, the sight of the shirts in the face of the denunciations of their ‘sinful lifestyle’  is a lifeline in a hostile environment. Wearing the shirt matters! The shirts, which predate MIND and in fact inspired our name, say “closed doors, broken hearts, we mind,” in reference to the UMC’s official and unfulfilled slogan “open hearts, open minds, open doors.” You can buy the shirt online.
  • Join us for dinner. This year, MIND will be co-sponsoring a dinner on Saturday, June 9th. Please be sure to select this dinner as you register for Annual Conference — this is always one of our biggest gatherings of the year, and not to be missed! (If you missed registration, come anyway! We will have opportunities for people to make donations to offset the cost of non-registered participants, because we would rather have you join us than miss out on a major opportunity to fellowship with LGBTQ UMs and our allies.)
  • Please stop by our table and say hello! We’d love to meet you, and are happy to point you towards resources to help join the work of LGBTQ advocacy in the UMC.